i agree! all i know is i would NEVER ignore a child, even if i was still IN i know i may have been brainwashed but i never would have shunned a kid, hell even if i was a regular pioneer, id openly support that kid
Nikki collins
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Kids being disfellowshipped
by Nikki collins inso some ex-jws and i were at dinner last night talking about how some of the ones baptized this year were so young.
a few under the age of 10!!
can you imagine if a kid got dfd at that age.... would the congregation shun them?
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Kids being disfellowshipped
by Nikki collins inso some ex-jws and i were at dinner last night talking about how some of the ones baptized this year were so young.
a few under the age of 10!!
can you imagine if a kid got dfd at that age.... would the congregation shun them?
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Nikki collins
Getting dfd at 12 and 14 and having an entire congregation ignore you is beyond me.... i can't even. If that had happened in my congregation i would have left a long time ago
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Kids being disfellowshipped
by Nikki collins inso some ex-jws and i were at dinner last night talking about how some of the ones baptized this year were so young.
a few under the age of 10!!
can you imagine if a kid got dfd at that age.... would the congregation shun them?
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Nikki collins
I just can't imagine ignoring a kid at the kingdom hall for being dfd. And why the heck would the organization allow anyone under the age of 18 be baptized.
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Kids being disfellowshipped
by Nikki collins inso some ex-jws and i were at dinner last night talking about how some of the ones baptized this year were so young.
a few under the age of 10!!
can you imagine if a kid got dfd at that age.... would the congregation shun them?
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Nikki collins
So some Ex-Jws and I were at dinner last night talking about how some of the ones baptized this year were so young. A few under the age of 10!! Can you imagine if a kid got dfd at that age.... would the congregation shun them? Would they be allowed to play with their friends??? So screwed up. That would ruin them mentally. Whats the youngest person you've known to get disfellowshipped?
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The Unbelievable Just Happened!
by ZindagiNaMilegiDobaara infrom my cong .
something uneblievable just happened.. i am pomo for a while not too long though.
while we were away (i and my best friend for the weekend), i received several texts from my 2 friends, from my ex-cong ,who are pimi(but starting to have doubts) who have been asking me questions about the jdubs.the texts seemed quite urgent n serious, so got the lowdown .at the weekend meeting , 3 families walked out!.
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Nikki collins
Gosh I'm waiting for the day some of my friends wake up! i grew up a JW so had no outside friends. so i dont have many friends or family for that matter, they are all JW and im DFD so they have nothing to do with me. But i'm NOT going back, id rather die alone then fake it thru the crazy cult.
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Something I just realized!
by Nikki collins innow that i'm out if i ever do find someone and settle down and start a family, my parents wont be a part of it.
my dad wont walk me down the isle if i get married, if i have kids they wont know their grandparents.
oh and by the way i had my freaking tubes tied so as not to have kids in this system.
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Now that I'm out if i ever do find someone and settle down and start a family, my parents wont be a part of it. My dad wont walk me down the isle if i get married, if i have kids they wont know their grandparents. Oh and by the way i had my freaking tubes tied so as not to have kids in this system. So if I do wan't kids later i have to have a reversal surgery and it might not work! I know i'm not the only one in this situation, just sucksLink +16 / -0 -
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my story...
by Nikki collins inmany of you have asked about my story, so here it is.
it's a bit long lol.
however i still loved jeremy but because he wasn’t a witness i knew i could never be with him and have my family.
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Nikki collins
thank you everyone for the kind words and suggestions. I agree that i should take things slow and not jump back into anything else to quickly and learn who i am and what i want. I dont want to fall into the same pattern as before
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Window Washers
by Nikki collins ini know @hiddenpimo is going to laugh at me for this because we had several in our old congregation, but what is with all the window washing businesses owned/managed by jws???
they are everywhere!
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I know @hiddenpimo is going to laugh at me for this because we had several in our old congregation, BUT what is with all the Window Washing businesses owned/managed by JWs??? they are everywhere!
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Do any of you born into the cult feel like your mental growth was stunted?
by rockemsockem inbeing born in to me was devastating.
when you are a child born in and raised with the they vs us and they are evil and worldly and going to die.
not allowed to form relationships with anyone not one of you.
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Nikki collins
yup! 100% needless to say im screwed up but i have to own it. it is what it is.
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So dumb
by nowawake14 ini always thought this was so dumb.. jws can't talk to the dfd but the "worldy" can?.
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Nikki collins
yea its retarded. When i was still in I cit off association with my brother even though he wasnt dfd, but he should have been and still should be as he has even told people hes an apostate. My parents still associated with him though. Now that i'm dfd they have shunned me but still associate with my brother. I'm glad i got dfd, open my eyes. my brother and i now have a great relationship because he knows it was my brainwashed thinking that caused me to cut him off.
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